There are a lot of single people in the world. He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. I will definitely take your advice and talk with him about my concerns I truely love him and want us to see eye to eye about certain issues since we are working towards being in this for the long run. He sees all families being able to stay together. They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. It is so hard, so sad and so lonely. Good luck to you.
So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. It CAN work, to be frank. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance.
She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. April 05, There are ways to avoid blue balls ya know. This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum.
As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. Everyday he asks me, "What are you doing tonight. Really have to walk in someone's shoes to understand.