I was a lesbian who dated someone who transitioned. Your question is actually kind of complex, but before tackling all that, I just want to give you permission: you are allowed to like whomever you like, and identify however feels best. Let me say it again: you can be a girly lesbian who dates a manly man. You can identify as queer and date only women. You get to choose. I always thought those words were about averages, for me, anyway. As in, I identified as a lesbian because that described mostly who my attraction was towards.
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And when you give all that you have to support someone else's dream, the money, cars, jewelry, etc mean little, unless you're a gold digger. Distance is hard, being away from family is tough, but in a way having only "each other" made our marriage so strong. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from.
They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her.