You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. Is it wrong not to. We have all felt it and our house seems absolutely different.
The church can be a very cruel place for single people. I am giving him all of those things. If you are married to your best friend, then love him unconditionally, share the struggles, accept the sacrifices and know that if he could, he would rather be with you than with a sick or dying patient. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. I really like him, and I think we fit together well with personality, values, and life goals. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together.