I'm 14 and still a virgin, but my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral sex. For a couple of weeks, my vagina has been itchy and red, and it hurts when I touch it. I don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about this. What should I do? Friction and pressure from fingering or oral sex can cause irritation in the sensitive genital area.
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1. Prepare Your Tools For The Job
By contrast, if you switch things up, you may find that her experience is more satisfying, since delaying her orgasm can make it stronger, says Brandon. So save your signature skills for the grand finale and experiment with these 16 ways to touch her vagina. When it comes to G-spot stimulation, most guys know one classic technique: Insert a finger inside her vagina, palm up, and use a come-hither movement to stimulate her. To wake up the region, use the heel of your hand to press downward on the mound, in the direction of her clitoris. That said, taking your time before touching her clit can do wonders for her arousal—so press her labia majora between your thumb and index finger, rubbing back and forth with a gentle massaging motion, then gently tug her lips upward. First, apply a little lube - hint: simply dip a digit into her vagina - to the padded part of your finger, and circle her clitoris, applying a firm, consistent pressure. Stick with your standard way of stimulating her - the one that really gets her going—but switch up the position. So get creative: have her lean against a wall, bend over the kitchen counter, or stand up straight - then execute the move she loves best. You can even linger in the opening of her vagina, moving your fingers in a circular motion, without ever taking them out completely.
2. Tease Your Partner
Do guys really like fingering a girl and do girls really like to get fingered? These are the important questions I sometimes ask myself. I have been mulling over fingering for the last two days in an attempt to get to the bottom of it. I will pen my thoughts as they arise.
Fingering, also known as finger-banging or, if it is an old-timey TV sitcom, third base , refers to a person using fingers to stimulate the clitoris of a woman in order to bring her to orgasm. In order to finger someone, Casey Calvert , a porn star and the BDSM and fetish expert for GameLink, recommends using lube and experimenting with the speed, depth, and number of fingers. Fingering can be a nice warm-up before intercourse to get lubrication going.
